I love knowing the little quirky things that make him smile. When I pack him leftover supper for lunches, he loves it if I put freshly ground pepper on his food. It may seem like such a small insignificant thing to others, but for us, it is a love language. When I did that once, he phoned me laughing because it made him know that I loved him. And I do. Nothing flashy and pretentious. Just simple, honest love.